ILOVEPAOLODICANIO
4:36 Fri Feb 12
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Sounds like shit.
Id try and move on from her and just see your kid when yuo do and make the most of it. You'll always be there for him. GOod luck.
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Ricky Bobby
4:34 Fri Feb 12
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What KM says
Leopards never change their spots- she'll do it again.
I found out my missus was fucking a bloke at her work, I went mental but forgave her "for the kids".... A year later I find out she is still copping off with him!
Once a cheat, always a cheat... Good thing that came out of all this was I found out what a dirty scumbag she really is and the bloke fucked her off when she told him she was available.
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arsegrapes
4:33 Fri Feb 12
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Feel sorry for anyone who has to, going or gone through this. My brother was one, took a couple of years, but stay strong things will get better
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King Marlon
4:29 Fri Feb 12
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Been there McAvennie, feel for you but now is the time to think with your head and not your heart.
Concentrate on your boy and yourself, I'd avoid her like the plague, don't even look to go there again. Leopards never change their spots- she'll do it again. Learn from it, find someone better because guess what- you deserve it!
Get to football, meet your mates up the pub, spend time with family. Even look to move house if you want a new start. Your the Governor!!
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Tomsdad
3:37 Fri Feb 12
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Fathers for justice, moody ex-wife, autistic kid & a little bit of suicide. Apart from the sex side, this is the perfect WHO thread.
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madeeasy
3:27 Fri Feb 12
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When Zammo says anything
I am sure he means anything other than the ex mrs as you then wont get over her.
Part of your grieving process and in washing your hands of her should be in posting up a link btw.
We can then let you know whether its really worth the extra effort in trying to get her back.
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Zammo
3:24 Fri Feb 12
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Been where you are mate.
Time heals, don't turn to drink or drugs, focus on the boy and realise the ex is gone.
Don't sit at home pining, go out, enjoy life and bang anything.
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madeeasy
3:10 Fri Feb 12
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united we stand 2:21 Fri Feb 12
agreed.
Current Mrs
Mum's
Grand parents
and KIds
the unofficial off limits
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united we stand
2:21 Fri Feb 12
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SecondOpinion 12:28 Fri Feb 12
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Bit naughty mate.
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Council Scum
2:12 Fri Feb 12
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SecondOpinion 12:28 Fri Feb 12
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Prick
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Ricky Bobby
2:07 Fri Feb 12
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My ex HATES the fact that the kids chose to live with me over her! She got caught playing around and in the end I fucked her off.... She pleaded with them to join her but they declined.
I only have to say the word "Kids" around her and she flips.. Reap what you Sow!!
Divorce comes through in April so Happy Days!
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united we stand
1:52 Fri Feb 12
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Wish you all the best mate.
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boltkunt
12:59 Fri Feb 12
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didn't realise this was a lonely hearts forum as well as a football forum
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Your mum
12:54 Fri Feb 12
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Bitch of a of an ex gone: Result
Autistic kid gone: Result
New life: Result
lmao!
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joey5000
12:47 Fri Feb 12
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Buy her a motorbike and smash it up.
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SecondOpinion
12:28 Fri Feb 12
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Bitch of a of an ex gone: Result
Autistic kid gone: Result
New life: Result
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Gruesome Dump
12:25 Fri Feb 12
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Needs a bit more meat on the bone. Plenty of ways to have full residency yourself and give the mother access. Would depend on your home situation, the status quo, etc.
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JustAFatKevinDavies
12:15 Fri Feb 12
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chin up son, good luck
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claret on my shirt
12:14 Fri Feb 12
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many of us have been through shit like this in one part of our life or another and its not until you're way through it and past it you realise what a damn mess you were and how it basically ran or ruined your life for a period of time.
I used to have my son for a weekend and then have to take him back, once i got home to that empty house after dropping him off it was damn right horrible.One day your dad and the family person next your a single person, it fucks your head up.
Looking back if i knew what i do now i'd have tried to get a bit of help from somewhere. people thiunk asking for help is a sign of weakness, its not raealizing you need some help then getting some help is intelligent.
Good luck
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Mike Oxsaw
11:52 Fri Feb 12
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Adding to my earlier post, I'd not deny a certain smugness in the early days of my separation (pre-divorce) that I was able to anticipate each time where she was trying to get our meetings to go (most of the time she was trying to goad me into a violent act as she'd decided that was the surest way to get me out of HER kids lives' forever) and I was able to calmly steer things in such a way that she could never get there, yet she got from me all the answers she needed from her carefully memorised, choreographed & rehearsed list of "demands".
Don't play down any such feelings - they're often some of the few lighter moments you can take from the situation.
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11MDE
11:36 Fri Feb 12
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Fifth Column 11:25 Fri Feb 12
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Spot on.
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